Children are a big influence on parents. So, even when the husband and the wife separate, they have utmost faith that they will come out of this painful phase with the help of their affection towards their children. Both the husband and the wife may very much wish to have the children with them. But, the law does not permit this. The kids have to live with either of them. When there is no agreement, the matter naturally comes to a court of law. It is for the court to pronounce the judgment but before that, both the husband and the wife should present their arguments to prevail upon the court that the custody of the children should be with them. They naturally will engage a San Diego Child Custody Attorney individually to present their respective cases effectively. But, the attorneys should have an updated knowledge of the Child Custody Rights and the relevant laws related to them. Even if they commit a small error, that may cost the case to their clients. So, they will make all possible preparations for winning their side.